I did not grow up eating Spaghetti & Meatball sauce. I didn't even order it when we went out to Italian restaurants in Bangkok. Nor did I look for it in Italy during my visits there. If anything, it was Spaghetti Bolognese that I craved and associated with comforting Italian food (especially during my pregnancy with these kiddos). So naturally, I didn't have a natural affinity to this dish. The meatballs. Until the children arrived.
It must be an American-Italian comfort food, something that every American child has to live through, even when it's heated up from a can. (The thought alone makes me sad).
Somewhere along the last seven years (or more like 4 years since I don't think the kids had any say in what they ate during their first few years), I started making this dish. I don't remember if I opened a cookbook, or consulted google, or just winged it (as usual). But I have pretty much been doing the same things for it, with good results (and never wrote it down, until today). The sauce with the meatballs freeze beautifully as well. I usually start making it in the early part of the day, and have the pot simmer for hours. When the kids come home from school and get a whiff of that familiar comforting aroma, they leap with joy (okay, maybe just a small jump). "Spaghetti for dinner!" they would announce.
I asked them for help today, specifically to make the meatballs (I had the sauce already simmering in the pot). My sweet son with the best tools around (his hands) volunteered to help. Little did he know that I was going to use him, from beginning to end. He seemed to have been thrilled that I let him use a big knife to chop the parsley (he even thanked me for this), and a tong to turn the meatballs. A few more times of being the sous chef, the little man will be making this whole thing by himself! I can't wait.
I also succumbed to baking the 'No Knead Bread' to go with our meal. I had been dubious about this, somewhat irrationally. What is wrong with kneading the bread dough? Why don't people have just 10 minutes to do it the proper way? The way our ancestors have always made bread?
Anyhow, I did it. And shall I say, I
was surprised at how good it turned out. But next time, I am still going to pull up my sleeves and give the dough a little love.
Meatball Sauce
For the sauce:
1 small onion, diced
3 medium carrots
3 celery stalks
a handful of parsley
2 cloves garlic
1 can flat anchovies in oil
2 Tablespoons tomato paste
1/4 cup dry red wine
2 Tablespoons maple syrup
1 teaspoon of Herb de Provence (or a mixture of thyme, organo, rosemary)
Salt and pepper to taste
3, 14 oz cans diced or whole peeled tomatoes
Put the first five ingredients into a food processor (or hand chop them all finely). Pulse until finely chopped and blended.
In a heavy sauce pan or pot, cover the bottom with a thin layer of olive oil. When the oil is warm, add the chopped vegetables. Stir and cook for about 5 minutes.
Add one whole can of anchovies, and 2 tablespoons of tomato paste to the vegetable mixture. Stir well. Cook for a few more minutes.
Add red wine, and maple syrup. Let simmer for a few more minutes.
Puree the tomatoes in the food processor, and add this to the pot. Mix well, and let simmer.
This sauce is great alone, and you can omit the anchovies if you would like to make it a vegetarian (vegan) sauce.
The Meatballs
1 lb ground beef (or bison is a great option!)
1/2 cup panko (Japanese bread crumb)
1/2 cup grated parmesan cheese
1 egg
1/4 cup ketchup
a small handful of chopped parsley
Put all the ingredients in a large bowl. Combine with your hands, making sure it is well blended. Take a bit of the mixture to roll into balls, the size of a golf ball.
Heat oil in a pan (we use a caste iron pan), drop the meatballs in the pan and brown all sides.
Add the meatballs into the big pot of sauce, and there you have it...the comforting Meatball sauce ready for cooked (al dente) spaghetti or whatever pasta you prefer.